Relationships are the central pillar of a happy and satisfying life. Whether it’s about making it work with a new partner, just enjoying a date, putting things right – after a spat, or dealing with insecurity, hypnosis can really help you deal with the psychological and emotional issues that arise in any relationship.
Have you ever heard yourself saying things to people you love and then wonder who the heck just said that? Do you find yourself making up “fantasies” in your mind, and then blaming those that you love “knowing” that those ideas must be true, no matter how impossible they may be? Have you ever woken up from a nightmare concerning your spouse and now you’re mad at them even though they’ve been right there sleeping next to you? Have these thoughts and associated feelings cost you relationships or the closeness of an intimate relationship that you might have enjoyed? You’re not alone, and more importantly you don’t have to continue down that path one more day.
If relationship problems aren’t dealt with they tend to build up over time. It can often be hard to know how to resolve certain issues. So how do you keep things from going from bad to worse? How much of our behavior in relationships has been programmed from childhood? What role does the subconscious mind play in who we choose in relationships and why? Hypnosis and hypnotherapy for healthy relationships helps you to easily learn the answer to these questions as well as how to return to the honeymoon stage.
When you are experiencing discord with your partner you may experience pressures such as :
Since everything we learn is garnered from our own experiences with whatever the topic is, it doesn’t it make sense, that with so many broken homes and dysfunctional families, that along with common knowledge such as Math, History, and Literature, we would also be given some foundational course on how to have happy, healthy relationships? If you think about the role relationships have in our lives, you quickly realize that every aspect of our lives is impacted positively or negatively by our ability to have fulfilling relationships with others. Certainly major roles in this area are those close intimate relationships we have within our families and friends. But there are a myriad of other areas of our lives that being able to relate well with others is important and even critical.
For some people it isn’t simply a matter of not having good roles modeled, they have had some bad roles modeled. At an early age some people have had their trust betrayed by the very people they believed they should be able to trust most! This leaves them feeling hurt, angry, or fearful having felt rejected or abandoned by someone they thought they were safe with. Later when they try to make friends or even develop close or intimate relationships they find themselves not trusting, apprehensive, or worse. The reason for this is straight forward enough, if I can’t trust even the people that are supposed to love and care for me, how can I trust anyone else?
Fortunately, there is hope. Using hypnosis and hypnotherapy we can follow back to those early events that setup this mis-belief, and resolve those feelings there in the past. Once they have been resolved in the past where those mis-beliefs were first developed, so that they are no longer a problem in the past, then they will no longer be a problem in our present, nor again in our future. You see using the same mechanism of the mind that learned the misbehavior, we can use that same mechanism to work just as reliably for learning and reinforcing positive beliefs and behaviors.
Resolve issues from the past that prevent having healthy relationships today.